Beau's Adjustment to Big Brother

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Photo by Emi Joy Photography
I've been asked a ton about Beau's reaction to Sophie since we came home from the hospital almost two months ago. I honestly went into it as open minded as possible, with really low expectations as far as how Beau would respond to her. I kind of expected them to just coexist. But let me just tell you, our boy was born to be a big brother. I started crying typing that sentence. This season of becoming a family of four has been beyond my wildest dreams because of how much Beau loves Sophie. Is he a normal two year old who has hard days? UM YES. Sometimes is he not interested in her? Yes. Am I exhausted from caring for two tiny people all day? Yes. But Beau's reaction to Sophie has been one of the sweetest experiences of my life.

Her presence has allowed us to see so much growth and development in his little personality. One of the first times that I left the house with both of them by myself we went to just drive through Chick fil A to get out of the house and pick up some lunch. On the way home Sophie started crying and I caught a glimpse of Beau reaching over into her carseat and holding her foot. Speaking of the car, bringing Sophie into our driving experience has made me realize that Beau would REALLY love to still have a car blanket, as he always takes Sophie's from her. Every time we get to our destination he has pulled it off of her and into his own lap. Now that she's been here longer and he's observed more about how we care for her, whenever she cries at home he comes over to check on her. Yesterday she was having a hard time and he just rested his hand on her chest and couldn't take his eyes off of her. He knows to find her paci and tries to put it in her mouth for her. If she's upset he immediately tries to show her a toy or get her paci for her. A handful of times I've been in the middle of something while Sophie has started crying in her crib and I've gone to check on her and found that Beau's already taken it upon himself and is reaching through the bars of the crib trying to get the paci to give to her. He kisses her forehead without prompting. He LOVES trying to hold her hand. That's his natural instinct with all babies, he just wants to hold a hand, haha. I share all of this to give a look into the joys of how it's been with two, but also so I can remember this sweetness. I really need to take some time to write some of this down in the memories portion of his baby book. When Sophie was about a month old, Beau was sitting on our bed and just started sobbing and reaching for Sophie. Ben claimed that he thought Beau wanted to hold her but I was skeptical. He placed Sophie into Beau's arms and he even somehow sitting in the middle of the bed knew and supported her head. Take my word as his mama that it's crazy that he understood that. He's so motivated by his love for her to learn new things and grow already and that just breaks me into a thousand pieces.

I've tried to reflect back on anything I did to prepare him, which was basically squat diddly. We didn't read a ton of books (although we probably could have really benefitted from that) or anything. The only change I made was getting him used to eating at more flexible times to adjust to not being the only baby needing care. He used to eat breakfast right when he woke up, and I got him used to eating anywhere up to an hour after he woke up. That's helped a ton I think. Does anyone have any sweet stories of things they did to get their family ready for a new sibling? I'd love to read comments! :)

Sophie Charlotte: 3 Months

Monday, August 6, 2018

3 Months as of 7/27/18

Weight: Oops, don't know!! Will be better about checking stats for future posts but now it's already passed!

Clothes: Sophie's still wearing 0-3 month clothes, and for the most part still has a good amount of room in some of them. Our girl is on the small side, for sure!

Sleep: She's sleeping from 7:30pm-7 am or a bit later consistently each night, with a nap at 8:30, 11:30, and 2:30! She's thriving on her little schedule. I haven't been as good as I was in her first two months about enjoying holding her for naps occasionally, so I want to make an effort to change that this month.

I kind of hit on that above, but she's on the eat-play-sleep schedule.. feeds at 7am, 10am, 1pm, 4pm, and 7pm.

Health: Had her first runny nose! Really sad but it cleared itself up pretty quickly!

Crying: I can count on one hand the times she's cried this month. Even in the morning when she wakes up she just kind of talks. I know this will change but I'm loving my chill girl!

Likes: Everything? Haha! We're still loving the Fisher Price Kick and Play Piano.. she's reaching for the toys and holding them and swatting them. She's also doing well with tummy time. She loves sleeping on her side. She enjoys a little tickle under the chin.

Dislikes: She doesn't love a wet diaper but outside of that.. I'm kind of stumped for anything that she dislikes. This girl will literally not even cry when Beau sticks his fingers in her mouth. Not sure why he always wants to do that, but he does. Haha!

Milestones: She's so close to rolling from back to tummy!

Special Moments: Her first Fourth of July, family staycation at Strader farm, Chick fil A Cow Appreciation day

Friday No. 82

Friday, August 3, 2018

No. 1 
I recently discovered J.Crew's new collection with Universal Standard. You can choose from a drop down menu what size model you want to see wearing the item. I thought that was SO cool and helpful and wouldn't it be amazing if you could do that on every website? Obviously it would take a ton more time and money to put together but it'd be awesome! This dress is so perfect for year round wear, so it's on my wishlist! I also really love this top but to be perfectly honest with you I wish it was navy and not black, haha! 

No. 2
I feel like I'm really settling into being a mama of two. There are so many differences from just having Beau but it's been such a joy having both my babies. We're in a stage right now where their nap times don't overlap very much which has left me pretty drained at the end of the day- that nap time for me to take a few minutes for myself is so life giving. So that's honestly been hard for me at different times but as I keep getting questions on advice for adding another baby, the biggest thing is just putting one foot in front of the other. I'll probably share more thoughts on this soon!

No. 3 
I really enjoyed reading this post on choosing five baby names! I wrote posts similar to this for both Beau and Sophie and love looking back on them. Interestingly enough I've gotten a lot of questions again recently about how we chose their names so here ya go!

No. 4
We have four more weeks of Beau's swim lessons before wrapping up for the summer. Before we signed up Ben was super skeptical but it has been SO good for Beau. It's given him so much more confidence in the water. I just would have never felt confident with even putting him under the water without outside guidance and it's been so fun to see Beau learn and grow in this area! It's also been fun to have our friends in our class.

No. 5

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